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Updated: Feb 3, 2021



“I Can’t Breathe.” Coaching on Painful Experiences

One small virus becomes airborne in one part of the world and a few weeks later it has spread out across the globe.

One black man dies during his arrest and across the globe protests arise on police brutality and discrimination.

Just two examples of how truly globally connected we all are, and how we affect one another.

So, how do we deal with painful, and often traumatic experiences? What can we, as coaches, do to support those who are affected by it? How to we deal with loss, pain, or grief?

In this edition we try to answer those questions and offer you the tools to best support your clients in a non-judgmental and empowering manner.

But we also answer the question how we, as coaches, can best deal with painful experiences ourselves.

Some of the stories shared in this edition are very painful to read. But they need to be shared and read across the globe.

Only when we share our stories, and try to understand them, and start thinking of constructive ways to move forward together, is when healing can take place.

My heartfelt thanks go out to our contributors who freely shared their, often painful, stories and proved that being vulnerable is truly a strength.

Live and Learn, Ton de Graaf, Executive Coach, ChBC™ Publisher and Editor-in-Chief


I Can’t Breathe.   By Amanda Harrinauth

Eight minutes and forty-six seconds.    By Julianna Hynes, PhD, PCC

Grief and Loss – a reflection on a multiple brain approach.    By Dr. Suzanne Henwood

Cultivating a Healing Space in Your Sessions.    By Leon VanderPol

Questions For White People.    By Jodi-Kay Edwards

The Power of Acceptance in a World of Uncertainty.    By Rosie Evans

Coaching Loss, Pain, and Grief.    By Rhiannon Reese

Coaching for Loss and Grief During COVID-19.    By Julia von Flotow




Leaders are Stepping Up to the Plate… And so are we. We believe that strong leadership is a critical factor to successfully navigate the rapidly changing landscape created by the COVID-19 outbreak.  We take our role supporting leaders, teams, and organizations very seriously.  For this reason, we have created a special global cadre of leadership coaches and health ecosystem leadership experts to support you through the specific challenges of leading during this time of uncertainty. As people around the world grapple with the ambiguity and uncertain impact of the global COVID-19 pandemic, leaders, especially those within the health ecosystem, are being asked to step up to the plate. In this new environment, leaders are making complex decisions on a minute by minute basis to keep their workforces and communities safe, while also trying to maintain a laser-beam focus on delivering highly efficient and effective services in context of spiked demand and limited resources.  Expert Guidance.  Specialized Support.   On Demand Delivery. TLD Group has mobilized our global cadre of leadership coaches and consultants to help organizations and leaders affected by the pandemic. We have adapted our solutions to be available during expanded hours, 100% virtually, and on-demand in key leadership areas. Clients can access our curated global faculty via an online platform or work directly with our core team to schedule delivery via video-conferencing software. Special leadership support to address the challenges associated with COVID-19 include: 


  • Navigating a Pandemic

  • Leading in Times of Crisis

  • Maintaining Focus and Balance

  • Breathing and Mindfulness Practices

  • Frontline Clinician Support

  • Executing Under Pressure

  • Making High-Quality Decisions in Uncertain Conditions

  • Navigating Team Members’ Anxiety and Fear 

  • Maintaining Morale in the Face of Change

  • Leading Virtual Teams


Critical Services to Support your Needs

1:1 On Demand Coaching In a time of unprecedented pressure to demonstrate leadership and high levels of public concern, the performance of senior leaders is more critical than ever. TLD Group’s coaches include former C-suite leaders and tenured health ecosystem consultants who have experience steering organizations through crisis and challenge.  This service is available on a per session basis at the frequency and cadence that best matches your needs and can all be accomplished virtually. 

Virtual Team & Group Leadership Development Teams are being asked to perform under conditions and environments that may be entirely new to them. Our expert faculty has extensive experience working with teams to enhance business results, engage trust, open communication, and align on shared vision in a virtual environment. This service includes 1:1 consultation with the team leader, custom designed content, live virtual delivery of content, and as needed communication with the leader and team.

Consultation with Health Ecosystem Experts

Sometimes in crisis you need an expert in the room. Our faculty of health ecosystem experts leverage research-based content to help build knowledge on critical topics for leading through a pandemic. Consultations are focused on providing specific expertise to navigate the uncertain healthcare environment and drive required change.


How to Get Started


For information on access and pricing, please schedule a time to connect, use the form below, or email info@tldgroupinc.com




Unprecedented Times

Unparalleled Support

Healthcare Leaders are Stepping Up to the Plate… And so are we. We believe that strong leadership is a critical factor to successfully navigate the rapidly changing landscape created by the COVID-19 outbreak. We take our role supporting leaders, teams, and organizations very seriously. For this reason, we have created a special global cadre of leadership coaches and health ecosystem leadership experts to support you through the specific challenges of leading during this time of uncertainty. As people around the world grapple with the ambiguity and uncertain impact of the global COVID-19 pandemic, leaders, especially those within the health ecosystem, are being asked to step up to the plate. In this new environment, leaders are making complex decisions on a minute by minute basis to keep their workforces and communities safe, while also trying to maintain a laser-beam focus on delivering highly efficient and effective services in context of spiked demand and limited resources. Expert Guidance. Specialized Support. On Demand Delivery. TLD Group has mobilized our health ecosystem leadership coaches and consultants to help those on the front lines of the pandemic. We have adapted our solutions to be available during expanded hours, 100% virtually, and on-demand in key leadership areas. Clients can access our curated global faculty via an online platform or work directly with our core team to schedule delivery via video-conferencing software. Special leadership support to address the challenges associated with COVID-19 include:

  • Navigating a Pandemic

  • Leading in Times of Crisis

  • Maintaining Focus and Balance

  • Breathing and Mindfulness Practices

  • Frontline Clinician Support

  • Executing Under Pressure

  • Making High-Quality Decisions in Uncertain Conditions

  • Navigating Team Members’ Anxiety and Fear

  • Maintaining Morale in the Face of Change

  • Leading Virtual Teams

Critical Services to Support your Needs

1:1 On Demand Coaching In a time of unprecedented pressure to demonstrate leadership and high levels of public concern, the performance of senior leaders is more critical than ever. TLD Group’s coaches include former C-suite leaders and tenured health ecosystem consultants who have experience steering organizations through crisis and challenge. This service is available on a per session basis at the frequency and cadence that best matches your needs and can all be accomplished virtually.

Virtual Team & Group Leadership Development Teams are being asked to perform under conditions and environments that may be entirely new to them. Our expert faculty has extensive experience working with teams to enhance business results, engage trust, open communication, and align on shared vision in a virtual environment. This service includes 1:1 consultation with the team leader, custom designed content, live virtual delivery of content, and as needed communication with the leader and team.

Consultation with Health Ecosystem Experts

Sometimes in crisis you need an expert in the room. Our faculty of health ecosystem experts leverage research-based content to help build knowledge on critical topics for leading through a pandemic. Consultations are focused on providing specific expertise to navigate the uncertain healthcare environment and drive required change.

How to Get Started

For information on access and pricing, please contact your Client Relationship Manager or email info@tldgroupinc.com or get in touch with me directly info@tondegraaf.com

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